Ever wondered if we could have got the opportunities we missed; the moments we spent happily; the people we met; the situation that made us feel amazing. What if we could have changed the mistakes we did and the wrong decisions we took. I wonder how we will change our life if we get the power to go back in time and change each and everything according to our norms. The time when we had to choose among a few options and we opted for something, but later that something is causing us pain and then we could just have changed that one wrong choice we made and we could have lived happily ever after. It seems to be amazing to have this power to change. Contradicting this, I also wonder that why God didn’t give us this power. Well, supposedly, because we the humans are so demanding that we would have created more harm than good. We can’t make our self confined according to one situation. We want more and more. We want better and best.
Life is a crazy thing. It is uncertain. We don’t know what next moment is going to give us. This world is round. What you do, will be given back to you in some form. Still, at times we doubt our choices. The feeling that Life would have been different if I would have opted for the second option rather than the first makes us insane. And then what we are left with can be defined in only one word i.e REGRETS. Making a wrong decision is scary, but what is more scarier is regret. So, stop thinking about what we chose and what we didn’t. Just do what you feel is right. Make your own decisions so that in future its you who is responsible for everything. In the worst scenario the decision will not be lucrative. Still you will be happy that you did what you felt like doing. Regardless of those regrets think about making the present countable. If that decision is making your life a mess then don’t moan over it rather learn from the mistakes and move on. This life is really precious so don’t spoil it by cribbing over the miseries.
In hindsight the choices might seem to be wrong sometimes but at that very moment it was our decision the one we took and it seemed best in that given scenario. That is what make us the one we own and should give its due respect. Just because it didn’t worked out as our plan with our limited thought process doesn’t demean the value of that decision the one we are responsible for and the one which is truly ours. So, Stay happy with everything around you as it is the creation of our decisions. Try to be calm in every situation of life. Rely on the Almighty and trust His endless love. He will do the best for you.