A moment of despair and I was sitting idle, introspecting about what I wanted to become in life and what I am. I dreamed a lot. but was not able to achieve much of them. I was sad and then I had a conversation with my friend. She told me a phrase – “Believe in yourself”. I wondered that how influencing it could be and what probably it is to believe in yourself? I guess, It is believing in your capabilities. However, how capable we are? How will we get to know this? If you will ask me, then I would say that you are capable of becoming whatever you ever thought of. It is just about changing your attitude towards life. If you look the right way, you can see that the whole world is a garden.
To start believing in yourself you first need to disconnect yourself from the need of asking for others approval. You should have so much faith and enthusiasm in yourself that you start trusting your decisions. Others may demotivate you through their quotes. They may mock you, but you just have to believe yourself and move on with spark in your eyes and power in your actions. Be good to all and do well with everyone out there, but listening to whatever the world says about your aims is not your part, Learn to deal with all the things said. If they are saying good about you then appreciate it and if not then don’t think much because it’s your life and you have the right to live it according to your norms. You just need to change the perception of your thinking.
Well, Thoughts have a very deep affect on us. They control us. I used to wonder that why we can’t control our thoughts. When we try to move on these thoughts pop up from some unknown source of our mind and try to act as an interruption. We feel so helpless at that particular time. Nevertheless these thoughts, as I thought more about them, are quite important for us too. They make us remember, what our past was; what we were few years back; who used to bother us a lot; whom we loved and for whom we felt hatred. These thoughts make you stronger and confident if you have become a better person than what you were earlier. However, some people might think that they had an awesome past and they weep over their present. So, for them I would say that this is what life is. You neither had more nor you had lesser than what you actually deserve. If you think that what you have is not good then think again because if God has taken something from you then He surely has some gigantic plans for you.
Believe in that Almighty and start believing in yourself. This life is not easy to live. The world is crazy and cruel. You have covered a long journey, struggling with everything that came your way. If you can come this far then you can go far ahead from what you are today. Never think that the things you have achieved so far are small because tiny drops slowly and steadily fill the bucket. Moreover, when the water starts overflowing from the bucket then it starts moving out freely on the ground taking any shape according to the place and situation. Henceforth, make yourself like water and remember that when this transparent liquid collects all the power in one direction then it becomes a spectacular tide. So, never demotivate yourself and believe in yourself because thats what you will have to do in order to make yourself stronger and to live this life with unbridled happiness.